It sometimes seems easier to stay in our dreams. In dreams we are the perfect person, we can do anything we want with little to no effort. The reality of life is that it is not easy, we are no longer that perfect person, anything we wish to accomplish requires work. The work and effort and challenges of this life can drive us to wish our lives away and end up having many regrets along the way.
To quote President Thomas S. Monson, who was at the time first counselor in the first presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. "May we live so that when that final summons is heard, we may have no serious regrets, no unfinished business, but will be able to say with the Apostle Paul, 'I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.'" (Now Is the Time, Thomas S Monson, October 2001 General Conference)
Let us escape the captivating effects of dreams. Let us escape our fantasies. Let us "serve [Our Lord] with all [our] heart, might, mind and strength, that [we] may stand blameless before God at the last day." (D&C 4:2) Let us live our lives and make our dreams a reality.
When Time of Parting Comes
By John M. Freckleton
Does a person newly dead
Indulge in tears
When pausing for a moment
Just beyond the veil,
Beholding loved ones overcome by grief,
Retreat from what was once a bed of pain,
And murmur sad good-byes?
And does the newly dead
Rejoice that mortal agony is over,
Mingling tears of thankfulness
With sorrow for the parting from the loved ones:
Mother for her little children,
Father for beloved wife and family,
Child for loss of earthly home …
Can the spirit thus released
From all the heaviness of earth
Forget at once the happiness
That came from friends
And all the beauty earth life
Sometimes held …
And leave with no regrets
Or backward glance?
Must the leaving differ greatly
From those poignant moments
When we say good-bye
To take our leave at any time
And be without the company of those we love
For many days of longing loneliness
Or for an interlude of years?